Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Righting the Wrongs


By: Yehuda Berg

Wednesday, January 7

We all have regrets about missed opportunities of saying something to a loved one, due to either an unwillingness to be uncomfortable, an aversion to rocking the boat, or good old-fashioned pride.

Go to some one you love very much - with whom you've had problems - and tell them you love them. Before you open up, consider these three conditions :

1. Completely love the person and feel as if you are them in the moment

2. Believe there's a chance the person will change from what you're saying

3. Put your agenda on hold. Cut the strings of expectation and anticipate nothing in return.